My wife is a smart lady. The other day, my son commented that one of his friends in League of Legends was talking to him, and Candace asked how well he knew the person. The reply from my 10 year old was pretty predictable, but I was glad to know that he’s careful to carry out the rules we set for him. Don’t share personal information, don’t tell your last name, etc. He’s got the basics down well.
But what got me was my wife’s further commentary on the subject, about how she has two distinct groups of people and only calls one of them friends. They’re the real ones. The other, Facebook-style “friends”, she has taken to calling contacts.
It’s more than just nomenclature. It’s a mentality that goes along with the devaluing of what we’ve traditionally known as a friend. We throw around that word far too easily these days, just as we have with love, passion and other groupings of letters...
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